Indoor Floral Bulbs / A Growing Ritual for the Winter Months

To Know the Dark by Wendell Berry

To go in the dark with a light is to know the light.
To know the dark, go dark. Go without sight,
and find that the dark, too, blooms and sings,
and is traveled by dark feet and dark wings.

The autumn is fading and we have begun our descent into the darkest months of the year, a time when we embrace a slumber of restorative rest. The children have declared it cocoa season as they bustle from outdoor play to indoor handwork like rolling beeswax candles and wool felting. And while we are missing simple rituals such as gathering by the hearth, we are dreaming + designing the coziest spaces for our future home while we continue traditions like planting paperwhite bulbs to coax indoors for a winter solstice bloom. By now, the garden beds have been put to rest and we miss the work of growing + tending, so this is a beautiful way to get our hands in the dirt. This year we’ve opted for the Ariel Narcissus, a variety of paperwhite, which you should readily be able to find at your local garden center. This tutorial is for starting indoor bulbs in soil, though you can also grow in water, in which case you’ll want to add rocks to the bottom of your jar for the bulb to rest on. There are several other bulb options such as amaryllis or hyacinth if you’d like, too. We love to pick up extra bulbs to plant in recycled jars as gifts for teachers, mail carriers, or neighbors + friends.

So I brewed the children and I a pot of chamomile tea, laid our soil and bulbs out across the table, and dug in. As we nestled bulbs into their places, crowding them ever so slightly for a truly spectacular show, we whisper spells of sunshine filled days in the windowsill until we wake one late December morning to the scent of musky floral blooms. A magic which happens nearly overnight. And we will be reminded that while the winter world sleeps, the light is beginning to return, and we too will awaken with the pulse of the earth. (Paperwhites will bloom about four to six weeks from being planted.) As we embark on the journey into the winter season, I am wishing you introspection + rest, folks. I hope you enjoy this simple winter ritual as much as we do!

In gratitude + kindredness,

Holly

What You’ll Need:

  • Indoor Bulbs
  • Container that will allow root growth at least 3-4 inches deep, preferably with drainage
  • Potting Soil
  • Water

Planting Instructions:

Fill container with potting soil at least 3-4 inches deep. Nestle the bulb(s) snuggly and fill with additional soil need be, so the top one third of the bulb is exposed. Water soil to keep moist, but not wet. Place in a location with plenty of sunlight.

Contemporary Womanhood: Honoring Rest as Community Care

Somewhere Amid Cancer Season

The culmination of these feelings + exhaustion frothed to the surface under the new moon in cancer, a watery road map of my heart space that seems to return me in such an absolute way to the truth. And that truth keeps me coming back to the inner child shadows of gendered society, and that of how little girls spend time working through the insecurities of childhood while little boys play. Running through my head lists of things that needed tending, leaving little time for play or for mothering myself. These weights I’ve carried with me into womanhood, into motherhood, and into restless thoughts about how to achieve a radical form of rest + nurturing that is so necessary for me, for the practice of community care, and for changing the course of these binary roles in our lineage.

I listened to a podcast with Glennon Doyle while returning home from a long overdue visit with a dear friend, and as she spoke about the “invisible labor hours” expended by women creating + organizing mental lists, often around the clock- a privilege that the co-parent/partner in the household does not have to endure, it was the first time that I’d heard someone explain the bubbling up of exhaustion in a way that felt so real to my own. Having someone ask you how they can help only confirming that they in fact, do not bear your same load. Is this the season of life, or is this the future? And then I come back to remembering. Rest is not an action that is put on the list, it is the intention put before all other actions. Rest is the practice.

A morning coffee ritual, breath work, writing, capturing the beauty of life in photographs, a nourishing meal. However it is you choose to honor the pause, to bring life to your practice, rest. There is no better way to honor the women + mothers from which we have come and allow our daughters to play than to live a life of reciprocity with the practice of rest as a normalized form of self and community care.

New Moon in Aries, an Intention Setting Ritual


The approach to the new moon this week has been one full of wild + vivid dreaming and fatigue for me. I bleed with the dark moon, and it always calls me to care more deeply for my body and my mind. To honor rest, and give myself a bit more space to just be. I’m nourishing myself this new moon with a warm bath with the medicine and love of rose, and by sowing seeds of intention for the coming months. The energy of aries has me daring greatly to share my voice and my dreams, but I still feel the need to protect both them and myself. I’m finding patience in taking this life one grateful day at a time.

bath salts are a favorite from The Bluest Light

For this intention setting ritual you will need:

  • Seeds
  • Small vessel
  • Lemurian Quartz crystals or crystals of your choice

To begin, place seeds into vessel with crystals and hold in your hand. Breathe into your body and close your eyes. Picture each seed as it is placed into the ground. Imagine each seed, dark under the earth, and it as it begins bursting into life. First small roots that begin to spread and grow, pushing slowly upwards toward the sky. Feel the warmth of the sun and the cool, quenching rain as the plants dance in the open air. What seeds are you planting this cycle? What dreams do you have calling forth to burst into life? What is waiting for you in the future? This is the moon of revival, the moon of action, the moon of movement. Your seeds are now ready to plant, infused with your intentions of this moon cycle.

A Farewell to Winter, Rituals for Ushering in Spring

We welcome the return of the light with our whole hearts + minds in our home, because if you’ve lived a winter in the Midwest, you know that you cling hopefully to every additional minute of sunshine while you count tirelessly to springtime. And right on cue, Mother Nature decided to remind us not to get too far ahead of ourselves with a March snowstorm. So as we near the days before the Spring Equinox, or Ostara, I’ve been drawn to a few rituals that welcome the awakening of the earth, and the wonderment of springtime.

To Me, Love Me Florals

With the tease of the tulips + the narcissus peeking up through the ground, it always makes me eager to enjoy fresh florals dotted joyfully through the house. I think of it as a celebration for having made it through the winter months and enjoy treating myself to a bouquet of fresh anemones, or this week a bunch of forsythia branches to force indoors. It is a reminder of the mothering I have done for myself and the gratitude for the liminal spaces between the transition of seasons. With the disruption we’ve had to the children’s circadian rhythms this week from daylight savings, I’m letting these beauties hold me through the exhaustion- along with all the coffee.   

Energy Cleanse + Home Blessing

My urge to tidy + organize with the warmer weather has made me intrinsically in tune to the energy objects hold in our home. I let go of quite a few household goods when we recently moved because of the size of the home and wanting to use only what we needed, but I have been feeling called to declutter our space (and maybe even my mind, a little) even more. Our morning ritual has long consisted of burning lavender or other herbs from the garden as an expression of gratitude for our home space, and now we have begun incorporating gratitude that our home continues to protect us, in our health, for all that we have, and to clear out the stagnant, unwanted energy + welcome the new.  

Seed Starting for a Summer Garden

Lessons in patience + timing are among the firsts learned by gardeners, myself included. Starting a few varieties of seeds that require the tender loving care of the indoors before being transplanted out after the last frost are almost always what save me from the over eager feelings of growing too much too early in these infant days of spring. If you’ve ever clung commitedly to several peat pots of snap peas that you let your toddler start six weeks too early, you might know exactly what I am speaking of. I am currently nurturing a small tray of sweet peas, a single parsley plant, and some antique shades of pansies for a vision of hanging baskets on the front porch. Our garden plans will look much smaller this year, but we are excited to try and make a little boy’s sunflower wall dreams come true. Stay tuned!